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CAVEATS & DISCLAIMERS

I’m not a lawyer!

I’m a chump, not a lawyer, therapist or soothsayer.

My advice comes from lived experience and running this blog – a data set of hundreds of thousands of chump stories. I’m not a therapist, I’m a liberal arts major with the ability to think critically. I cannot accept payment to answer your letter personally or be your life coach. (And isn’t the whole concept of a life coach kind of mortifying anyway?). If you send a letter, create a screen name. I review letters to publish them. If you do not want your letter posted, please make that clear. Alas, I get so much mail that I can’t personally respond to every letter. (Sometimes I do, but most often I do not.)
Most important — if I answer your letter, post a comment on your thread. People are taking time to offer their support, please take the time to acknowledge them.

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DOMESTIC ABUSE HOTLINE

If you’ve got a super scary situation in the U.S., then go immediately to the National Domestic Abuse Hotline or womanslaw.org. (And clear your browser history!)

ARE YOU THE AFFAIR PARTNER?

If you are the affair partner and wonder if you should tell the chump? (I get this same letter over and over and over…) YES, TELL. Provide some proof, if possible, and then let go of the outcome. Oh, and get some therapy. Thank you.

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